Even though she knew their friends, family and fans would champion their relationship, Becca said there was still a part of her that was nervous to share their love with the world.
She explained that there was another side of her who had been anxious about the reactions of others for over four years. It was the ‘Do you want to allow that negativity into our relationship?’ part of me. It was a difficult decision. I realized that I had an army of friends who would support me no matter what. And, most importantly, they loved and cared about us. I knew that everything was possible. It was amazing to see the support and love we received.”
Becca wept as she reflected upon the kind words they had received. Hayley “has really made me feel courageous,” she said. “And she was always like, ‘People are going to LOVE you. People are going to love you. They want you to be happy.
But she does not feel the need for labels to describe her sexuality. “For me, it was never about my label,” Becca said. It is important that people have a label so they can identify what they’ve been through. That just wasn’t my experience….It’s not like, ‘This is my label. This is my sexuality. “It’s actually more like, “Hey, this is my sexuality. I’m so in love with it and want to share it.