Jennifer LopezAlthough she may have the ability to sing “Let’s Get Loud,” when it comes about her personal and romantic life, Ben AffleckShe prefers quiet things.

She said, “You just want to dance and sing,” while talking about the perceptions of her world by interviewing with The New York TimesPublished February 1. “This whole other thing comes along with it that you have to learn how to navigate—having that public life, this artistic life and then your private life. The life you desire is a standard, everyday existence like anyone else. It all comes under review.

Lopez, 52, and Affleck, 49, rekindled their romance in 2021, about 17 years after the stars called off their engagement. And while they’ve been photographed during PDA-packed date nights, romantic getaways and movie premieres, Lopez told the newspaper they had “learned our lesson the first time” when it comes to dealing with the media frenzy.

Which one is it? She said that Affleck and her relationship were sacred. You have to feel good all the time. You learn from your mistakes and make things more effective the next time. We are together in part. There’s also a side of it where we’re not as open to each other now that we are older and more in love than we were many years ago.