Lovato is doing more than just picking up the pieces. They have found their own way, and the divorce led to them discovering their sexuality.

The women shared that “when I got older I began to realize how queer my true self was” Glam, later adding, “I thought I was going to spend my life with someone. I realized that it wasn’t true and felt relieved to be able to live the truth.

Lovato realized that they are “too gay” to be together with a man of cis gender. Lovato said, “I hooked up and fell in love with a girl. I like it a lot. It felt better. They said it felt better. “Some of the guys I was hanging out with—when it would come time to be sexual or intimate, I would have this kind of visceral reaction. It was like, “I don’t want my mouth to be there.” The person with whom it was based wasn’t the only thing that made it different. The friendships I made with these people were more valuable to me than their romance.