The reality dating shows are first, and then marriage… or is it?

It’s not happening so quick. BachelorStars Clayton Echard and Susie Evans are taking things one step at a time after revealing they’re dating again during The Bachelor: After the Final Rose.

“We’ve had a lot of fun together but it’s tough doing thisAnd watching it back,” Susie told Nick Viall on the Viall Files podcast. We have much to share with each other, and a lot about ourselves. As we continue to learn and grow from it,

Clayton had “struggled” in the end with fan reactions and the show, so she suggested that they take some time for themselves to grieve. The couple plans to see where the relationship stands in three months, with Susie explaining that she wants to “make a point to do a pulse check.”

She said, “Neither one of us is dating to have fun or just to enjoy a casual relationship for a few years.” “We’re like let’s see if this can work. We need to be realistic about this.