Blake Lively has been the queen of the Upper East Side, the Met Gala and more, but to her daughters, she’s just Mom.

This was on May 9. Gossip Girl alum and fashion icon went through 19 looks from 2005 to now as part of Vogue‘s “Life in Looks” segment. Blake said she uses one of the looks—from 2018’s Heavenly Bodies: Fashion and the Catholic Imagination-themed Met Gala—to remind her daughters who’s in charge. 

“This is without a doubt my favorite look of all time,” she said of the bedazzled burgundy gown and Lorraine Schwartz brass crown. The Versace gown was the Met Gala 2018 dress. It’s not that I love designing dresses; I just feel like a Virgo. Or that I desperately need a daily life.

And though the gown made Blake, 34, feel like a queen, it doesn’t have much of an effect on her three girls with hubby Ryan ReynoldsJames, 7, Inez5. Betty, 2.