Jamie SkaarThis made quite an impression Michelle YoungOn The Bachelorette, but it wasn’t only for the right reasons. 

On the ABC dating show’s Tuesday, Oct. 26 episode, Jamie earned the first one-on-one date and had Michelle in tears as he shared that his mom struggled with mental health issues before her death by suicide when he was 24 years old. He won the date rose, and they seemed like they had instant chemistry. 

But things changed after Jamie was apparently annoyed that Joe Coleman earned the MVP award, along with the rose, for the basketball group date. During last week’s premiere, Michelle told co-hosts Kaitlyn BeristoweAnd Tayshia AdamsJoe, who is also from Minnesota, had previously sent her DMs but then she ghosted her before becoming the runner-up. Matt JamesThe’season of The Bachelor that aired earlier this year.

At the cocktail party, Jamie, who already had his rose, pulled Michelle aside and claimed that he and a number of the other guys had been speculating about how well she and Joe actually knew each other beforehand.