Anne Heche‘s ex-husband Coleman “Coley” Laffoon has shared a heartbreaking farewell to the late actress, mother of their 20-year-old son, Homer.

After the Six Days, Seven Nights star was declared legally dead at age 53 after spending days in a coma following a car crash last week, Laffoon posted an emotional tribute to his former wife on Instagram.

Anne’s passing has made me want to share a few thoughts. He said that he loved Anne and misses her. Homer is okay. Of course, he’s still grieving and it is as hard, if not more, than anyone can imagine. However, he is surrounded by his loved ones and he is strong so he will be okay.

In addition to Homer, Anne is also a mom to 13-year-old son AtlasHer father was her ex-partner. Men in Trees co-star James Tupper. James and Homer both paid respects to the actress after her passing.