Real Housewives reunions are no joke—even if you’ve been a star on your franchise for over a decade. 

Kandi Burruss has been on The Real Housewives of Atlanta since its second season in 2009, but as she explained on the latest episode of Housewives NightcapShe “always hates” reunions. 

“It makes my stomach turn whenever I go into a reunion because I hate arguing with people and I always know that it’s going to be a complete back and forth,” Kandi said. It was particularly hard this year because I did not realize that there were many people who came for my neck.

She was right until Kandi rewatched the episodes. Kandi said, “So many people had a lot to say on the show that I didn’t know was happening while I was standing there,” and “obviously, that has gotta be addressed.”

However, there is still much drama. The Aug. 7, episode of RHOA, the “No Scrubs” songwriter got into an explosive argument with Marlo Hampton