Ophelia NicholsAfter a tragedy, it is important to lean on your loved ones.

Nearly two weeks have passed since she received the heartbreaking news from her 18-year old son Randon Lee was fatally shot, the TikToker appeared in a series of emotional videos to let fans known how her family has been “pushing forward” in the wake of the tragedy. The content creator said that her husband was the one who died. DerickThis has helped me to find strength during this time of difficulty, and it was always there for me when I needed support.

“He did everything for me,” she said in one TikTok video posted on July 6, “There was one day that I was so physically ill⁠, my body in some way was reacting to my baby child leaving this earth…and he was outside on the porch calling my friends, listening and asking how to help me because he’s never seen me so sick before.”

She added, “I knew I loved my husband, but he really demonstrated it through all of this.”