It’s not accidental. Melanie Rose is known as the Mary Poppins of sex rooms.

The British designer at the heart of Netflix’s new design series How to Create a Sex Room A few tricks can make it easy to create the ideal safe place for sexual pleasure. Melanie and her husband, Nick, were introduced in episode premiere on July 8. TaylorAnd Ay JayTo the delights of flogging they eventually added a spanking chair to their final design for the sex room.

Netflix described the series as “You have seen kitchen remodels and bathroom transformations. But you have never seen anything like this!”

So, our curiosity being piqued we decided to meet with the go-to creator of sex room and ask her any burning questions.

Warning: If your favorite flavor is vanilla, this Q&A may not be for you!