Becca Kufrin She is not afraid to tell her love story.

The last month saw the Bachelorette An alum revealed her engagement to Thomas Jacobs, revealing that she was actually the one who proposed as “the ultimate plot twist.” And while many Bachelor Nation stars were thrilled for Becca taking matters into her own hands, the 32-year-old recently shared that she’s also received her fair share of criticism for the unconventional move.

Becca stated that she’s received much love, but also heard comments like “She’s desperate,” on her June 7 episode. Bachelor Happy Hour podcast. It makes me a woman desperate for what I want. [propose]Would you recommend this to someone? Thomas could do exactly the same thing within a week. No one can say he isn’t desperate. This doesn’t seem to make any sense. It doesn’t make sense to me.”

Becca continued to say that Thomas proposed to her because she knows “what works” and she was able to tell Becca why. Thomas met Becca on season seven of Bachelor in Paradise last summer. She stated, “I knew he’d be so supportive and grateful.” “He wouldn’t be offended that the lady proposed to the guy. The question is, “Why should it matter who does it?”